Elevating Women in Body, Soul, Sisterhood & Business
Life Coaching // Leadership Consulting // Program + Experience Design
Hey there! My name is Kiki Federico...
I help ambitious women learn how to live and lead authentically, soulfully and in a community of sisterhood
My mission is to teach professional women how to connect to their body, soul, passions and each other to find their power to make an impact.
I believe that women have the most critical role to play in shaping our future, but we must come together, celebrate what makes us women and change what's not working for us. When trust each other, share our stories and live from our hearts, we can access our intuition and bring passion to our ideas to become the next generation of embodied, feminine leaders and role-models.
Ever since I was a kid, I was chasing the masculine model of "success." I learned early on that achieving and people-pleasing got me ahead and approval. I spent years pushing and proving to live up to the dream of a successful, independent woman. As a perfectionist, I was doing everything in my power to keep up an appearance that I was happy and had my shit together.
Secretly, I was living a double-life. I was exploring nature, music festivals and yoga on the weekends, bouncing from my wild'n'free life to my high-pressure, masculine job in construction tech. It was exhausting! I couldn't be my true self in either world. I was in my head all the time. I acted however I needed to to get people to like me. I didn't know who I was or what path was right for me. Not only that, I had a habit of using food to cope with the stress and feeling unfulfilled. This left me feeling ashamed, overweight, and doubting myself. There I was... smart, outgoing, "successful"... and I felt completely lost and out of control.
I felt like something was missing, but I didn't know what it was. I was disconnected from my work and the people around me. But there was a little voice in the back of my head kept saying, "This isn't it. There is a better way. You are meant to be doing something greater."
I am a strong woman who refuses to let life just happen to me, so I started to listen to that little voice. I started seeking - answers to my problems, experiences to open me up, everything from hackathons to meditation, women's groups, self-help books, astrology and tarot readings. I became obsessed with stories of people who were living authentic, courageous, meaningful lives. Who were they? How did they get there?
I realized there is a growing movement of people sharing their voice with the world, in order to change it and make it better. Deep inside me, I knew I was also here to be a part of this revolution.
Soon I had a feminine awakening and realized that "I am a woman." All my life I had been trying to prove myself as an equal to men at the expense of really knowing and valuing my femininity. I was good at "manning up," pushing through and holding back emotions. I had become the hardened, "I can do it myself" type and wasn't attracting the right man. At the same time, I had a spiritual awakening, reclaiming my connection to my soul after years of being an atheist. I started to hear my heart's desires and feel the power to create my own reality. I stopped worrying about what other people thought of me. I was finally able to be my real, true self. I experienced sisterhood which helped me to heal and express parts that had been hidden and ashamed. I learned the ancient wisdom of breath, ceremony and ritual. I healed my relationship with my body, my sexuality and food. I felt liberated, beautiful and calm. I felt powerful. I felt alive. I felt deep love for myself. I was able to see how I can contribute - be a part of the solution. I finally trusted myself, the world and my calling to make an impact and teach others.
From this place of love, trust and connection, I decided I was willing to change and stand up for something I believe in. I found my purpose to empower awakening women leaders who are ready to create a better, more balanced life for themselves and the world.
Knowing that I needed support, I sought out mentorship and community. I invested in myself with trainings, retreats & coaching to go deeper, clear out what was holding me back and step up my game. I now guide professional women who want to live a more conscious lifestyle, feel confident in their ability to make an impact and find a path to true fulfillment.
With wild love,
And now, a personal note to all you smarty-pants, over-achieving, free-spirits out there...
Are you still being who you think you need to be?
Are you doing all the things you should do?
Are you giving away your power and dimming your light?
Well.. the world needs YOU! WE need you...
At this moment, the world needs our smart, ambitious women taking risks and the lead in life, love and business - speaking up for what we believe in and Know in our hearts to be true - in ways that inspire and restore the health, connection and love of life on this planet.
Let's be REAL. The world and workforce today was not created by women or for women. As professionals, if we truly want to be respected, recognized and make a positive impact, it's up to us to change what isn't working for us. It's up to us to be seen as leaders by making our true selves visible. We can't keep hiding out where it's safe.
It's up to us to know ourselves, come together and take action to create a New Way.
But you don't need to quit your job or move out of the country to get the clarity and confidence to step into your power and start attracting opportunities... or better yet, start creating opportunities for others.
When you take care of yourself, recognize your femininity as a gift and start trusting life, you inspire and influence those around you with ease. When you bring your true self together with your vision and ability to communicate & build relationships, you become a feminine leader. There is a place for you - the real you - and your values and ideas, wherever you are. Your sense of self, fulfillment and financial security depend on it. And our collective future depends on the presence of consciousness, liberated women in places of power.
The trick is that we all need mentorship and connection to a community who shares our values.
The world is waiting for you to find out who you are, what you want and what you stand for.
So... What are you waiting for? Permission?... Granted.
Ready to find the confidence and clarity to make a difference?... It starts with you.
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